TIARAS TEARS AND TRIUMPHS with SANDY J Podcast - Helping Victims and Survivors of Abusive Relationships Heal and Become Empowered

Ep 72 - The Key to Be Free is What You Need When You Are A Victim or Survivor of an Abusive Relationship

November 21, 2021




There are so many women who find themselves in abusive relationships.


As many as one in four, or one in three women, depending on where you live has experienced some form of relationship abuse.


I was one of them.


This episode explores why victims and survivors of abusive relationships need to find the key to be free.


Victims and Survivors of abusive relationships often lose all security and many of their critical basic needs are not met.


I have a dream, a dream that women all around the world will find the key to be FREE from fearfulness, unlock the door to their dreams, to step into a life they love.


Victims and Survivors of abusive relationships have been made to feel trapped so that even when they have opportunities they cannot see them.


The wounds may heal on the outside but healing the heart and the mind is something that never heals for some victims and survivors of abuse.


Many women and children are displaced and traumatized and need compassion, empathy, intervention, and support to help them to start to feel safe again. 


It is my heartfelt desire to create a place on acreage with a cluster of little houses and a community centre and community gardens for women and children to have weekend respite and transition housing that is safe and secure and supported, where they can draw breath and go through the process of securing long term housing that will provide them with a safe home and an opportunity to make a fresh start.


If you are inspired by this idea and would like to partner to create a haven to help women have an opportunity to transition with dignity into long-term housing solutions please contact me.



If you are a victim or survivor of an abusive relationship you may need support to help you with your challenges.

Get your crisis support list for Australia here

For those outside Australia google domestic abuse free online counseling support services


This podcast needs support to grow and reach more victims and survivors of abusive relationships.

Become a Patron of the Tiaras Tears and Triumphs Podcast here


If you are a victim or survivor of an abusive relationship and you need financial support to help you with your challenges.

Seek financial support in Australia to leave an abusive relationship, $5,000 grant 


If you would like to close the door on fearfulness and open the doors to making your dreams come true visit our website

The Key To Be Free


Ready to invest in your success, ready to stop thinking about what you don't want, and get clear on your dreams and desires?

Say YES to unlocking the door to your dreams with the key to be clarity call



Have you forgotten your value? Have you lost your confidence?

Why not join the next online women's healing and empowerment workshop to Unlock the Treasures Within.

When you know your self-worth you can improve your net-worth


Looking for a safe supportive social media online community?

Why not join women from all around the world from all walks of life in the 

Rise Up with Tiaras Tears and Triumphs

Facebook Group



If you like inspiring stories you may like to read By God's Grace I Go and other real-life stories of women of faith.

You can do this by getting a copy of

When Grace Found Me Volume Three

in Australia here

in USA here

in United Kingdom here 








If you feel unsafe at any time please STOP LISTENING.

You can come back anytime you are in a safe place to listen to the rest of the Podcast.

YOUR SAFETY is the most important thing to consider, closely followed by your sanity.

As impossible as it may seem, everything else is figure-out-able, especially when you get the right keys to open the right doors and to close the doors of fearfulness behind you.


If you are in immediate DANGER call the Police.



If you are struggling with your mental health please reach out for support with some form of counseling, therapy, or coaching. 

If you don’t know where to start to find a counselor, a good place to start is to talk to your Doctor.

There are also online counseling supports now available.

If the Support Person is not a good fit for you, try another and another, until you have one that is the right fit for you.

And don't forget, we help women to heal and grow, and help them to meet their challenges head-on, to move towards a life they love, so feel free to book in the key to be clarity call.



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Until next time, stay well and stay safe.


Sending you love, light, peace, and joy,


Sandy J


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