Ep 26 - Working through custody issues

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WORKING THROUGH CUSTODY ISSUES

On today’s show I have Heidi Carlson of Survivor Coaching.

She is a faith based singing Life Coach.  She has been in Family Court litigation over the past 11 years, she has spent over $140k and experienced over 70 motion hearings fighting for custody. Now she helps Women reduce their legal fees and helps them get to a state of being free from their abuser. 

One of the complex issues she is passionate in helping women with is working through custody battles with a narcissistic partner.

 

Custody battles and property settlements can be complex to navigate and it is great to find advocates to help support you through these judicial processes.

 

That’s why this interview is here to hopefully shed some light on tips and strategies to help you find some hope in the challenges you are facing.  

 

I hope that this interview inspires you too, to RISE and SHINE!

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TOP 10 TAKEAWAYS

• Have an attorney who has experience with narcissistic relationships and domestic violence.
• If possible, stay in the family home for during a custody dispute and or property settlement.
• 3) If you are feeling in immediate danger call emergency services.
• Having recorded information of incidents and patterns of abuse help to support your case.
• If an attorney is going to charge for an initial consultation move on.
• To reduce stress from negotiations request that all communication go via email and only check email every 24 hours.
• To reduce the overwhelm turn off all notifications as it can trauma bond you.
• Get a good therapist to work through the trauma.
• Abstain for alcohol and other substance use as it compounds depressive feelings and doesn’t fix anything.
• Have as many set plans in place as possible to minimise conflict.

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NOTE OF ENCOURAGEMENT: If you are struggling with your metal health please reach out for support with some form of counselling, therapy, or coaching.  If you don’t know where to start to find a counsellor, a good place to start is to talk to your Doctor. There are also many online counselling supports now available. If the Support Person is not a good fit for you, try another and another, until you have one that is the right fit for you. And don't forget, I help women to heal and grow, and help them to meet their challenges head on, to move towards a life they love. 

 

FIND OUT MORE ABOUT HEIDI CARLSON 

 

Website: https://heidicarlsoncoaching.com/

 

Email: mailto:heidi.carlson@heidicarlsoncoaching.com

 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heidilcarlson

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Sending you love, light, peace and joy,

 

Sandy J